For these past 3 days, i had the most enjoyable workshop in my life!!
The coaches that were holding the worshop were just fantastic!From the past three days, i have learnt that there are many different types of people that are around us that we ourselves may not know of. Friends are always there beside us but do we really know what kind of a person they are behind closed doors? I've seen, through the games that we've played together that conflicts do arise most of the time when people wants to win. To me, the best way to resolve the conflict, or even avoid starting one, is to opt for a win-win situation where everybody wins in some way or the other. One party may win more than the other but this is unavoidable. At least, you know that you have won and still have people's trust at the end of the day.Everyday, everyone have many different types of stress to deal with, be it physically or emotionally. Something i learnt from this 3-day workshop is to have more motivation and make more proactive action to lift our loads to reach the highest potential fufilment easier. In general, i have learnt many important values that we have to have within our team now or the future. Teamwork.Communication.Motivation.Coordination.and most importantly, TRUST! This value of trust was the most memorable. We played a game called X+Y. We had to earn as much money through flashing placards to get the sum of money written on the board. We had to trust each group that they would not betray us in putting the card instead of the one that we agreed upon.
The other game that we played was to sit on the lap of the person behind us and form a a stable circle. All we had to do was to trust that the person behind us can take our weight and sit on them. That was the only way to make the circle stable. I hope that everyone out there would also have the oportunity to try the games i played with my friends and learn the lessons from it. I'll continue to write more about what i leant during the workshop soon as this was not all the fun ended. Til then, all the best!
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11:10 PM
Real friends are hard to come by and i think that the least that i can do is to treasure all the times spent with them. I feel that my life is almost always perfect when my precious friends are with me.They are the ones who particularly make me feel special. There are maybe times that we don't agree with each other but i believe that between friends who understands us more than we sometimes do, it's possible to clear any misunderstangings or disagreements with them.Real friends are the ones who walk in when the whole world walks out. I've seen many different types of people in my schooling years up til now and have also grown to judge a person's good and bad points(generally) by seeing how they act and the way they talk. It's really important to choose the friends to be with and also to treasure them in any way you can. Regrets are just not acceptable when a friendship ends. Friendship is a special bond and i really want everyone to realise that the special bonds that you have developed with your friends should not be broken easily and we should all do our best to keep the flame of friendship alive!
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2:22 AM
There are times when we see things from a different perspective than others. However, to improve relationships between the people that we love, i believe that we should look at things from their point of view and try to understand them. This was actually a lesson that i learnt from a book that i had just read. It made me realise that if i try to understand others more, there would not be so many misunderstandings happening in this world.Some people may agree with me but others may not. But, the point i'm trying to put across today to all those who bothers to read this post is that things may not happen the way you want but always make the best about what you have and try to understand the people around you as they are also trying their best to go on with their lives and at the same time help you whenever thay can. So, the best thing you could do for all these people is to appreciate the love that they have for the special you and not take them for granted. Reason being, you never really treasure until the thing's lost and then regret it!
I wouldn't want the people that have appeared in my life at any point of time to be hurt in any way and if i can, i would do eveything i can to protect them. ;
To everyone out there, treasure all that you have and live your life with no regrets!
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6:53 AM
It's kind of funny that we usually have thoughts about the people that were always by your side ----friends.There are times when i just couldn't think of anything do and that's when they pop up as i on my MP3 and blast my mind with the music that i love.These so-called "inpirations"about what i think about them usually come from the songs that i listen to.
Recently, i bought a new album that i liked all the songs in it. There were particularly two songs that i could express my feelings about. The lyrics in it were spot-on about the things i want to do for my precious friends that were always there for me. The songs are Here I Am and Footprints in The Sand by Leona Lewis. There are many things that i want to do for the people around me but sometimes, i just can't think of what to do for them. In any case, everything that i ever try to do for them has only one goal----to see the smiles on their faces. That would be the best present i can ever get cuz' when i see their beautiful smiles that is coming from the bottom from their little hearts, i feel that whatever i had dome would be worth everything, just in change for their smiles. They are what truly make my world and what makes me happy!
I really appreciate everything that my wonderful friends have given me and the times that they have spent with me, whether in studying together or playing together. Thanks Everyone! Expect a little surprise coming up from me, Ji Jia Zu;)
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9:48 PM
